Monday, August 20, 2012

IF "Therapy"

Recently, one of the other IF bloggers was talking about how doing art projects or other craft projects helps her to deal with her sub/infertility.

I find that creating is therapeutic for me, too.  I mean, I've always enjoyed doing that kind of stuff.  I am not particularly gifted in painting or drawing, but I do enjoy it the process of it.  I also enjoy sewing and knitting.  Although I realize that procreating isn't truly the result of my husband and I "making" a baby (because God "makes" people), we clearly play a big role in the process.  That's one of the reasons I think sub/infertility is so devastating for many; the urge to help in that creation process feels squelched.

Fortunately, I can flex my creative muscles with those artsy projects.  Additionally, I can completely overcompensate for my seemingly lack of procreative results by keeping a huge garden!  Last year, I began to joke with my husband that I felt the garden helped me deal with my frustrations of us not being able to "reap our harvest" with children.  He was like, "I know, hon."  So, it was that obvious.  Interestingly enough, the previous owners of our house also struggled with sub/infertility and later adopted a child.  One of the things that attracted me to this house was the large yard, flower gardens, and vegetable/fruit garden.  I wonder if they chose this house partially for the same reason.

Do you engage in any creative activities, such as art, knitting, sewing, jewelry making, gardening for your IF "therapy?"

6 comments:

  1. I am the total opposite of crafty -- in fact, I am the anti-craft! ;)

    I exercise to take my mind off of IF. I also really like to shop (which isn't the best use of my time, I know). I also like to cook when I'm upset. The caliber of my meals increases with my mood.

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  2. I read IF blogs! Ha! I read books, watch fav tv shows and rent movies! Anything that lets me lay down!

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  3. Oh, my gosh - I LOVE that, JellyBelly! You are "crafty" with the English language, that is for sure! : ) And yes! Exercise and cooking are great for dealing with the pain of IF. I should do more exercising.

    MFAW- Reading and watching TV/movies are helpful for me, too. I agree that reading the IF blogs is therapeutic, but sometimes it stresses me out, because there are so many to keep up with!

    Thanks for your participation!!

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  4. I would say I enjoy the "retail therapy" aspect, but I like gardening sometimes, if it isn't 110 degrees out. :-)
    And I like MFAW's comment about anything while laying down ... Yeah, me too! :-)

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  5. Hi, I started reading your blog after reading the Catholic Campanion book. After our 1st year of going through infertility, I started sewing. When we were preparting to bring our adopted son home in 2010/2011, I was able to make the nursery a snoopy room becuase I was able to sew the wall hangings and curtains, as well as a blanket for him. Sewing really helped me stay busy. Thanks for sharing your blog!

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  6. All in His Perfect Timing & JEM826 - Thank you for your comments! :)

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